Wednesday, May 12, 2010

恍然。大悟


人很愚昧,很多事情往往喜欢钻牛角尖,一心只想求得自己想要的结果。尤其是在爱情的世界里,认定了自己心里面的那一个很难说放手就放手,正所谓旁观者清,当局者迷。绿茶就是这样死心眼,苦苦等了将近两年还是一场空。

不是他屡劝不听,而是他十分善变。已经不知道是多少百次劝他放开,他听了之后像是顿悟了什么道理,还能够反过来教训其他同样失恋的人。可是不到三五天的时间,他又打回原形,像一条永远飞不上天的虫,苦苦等待爱情回归。

我有很多朋友都是这样。撇开爱情不讲,有时候连我这种自以为很清醒、醒目的人,也会被一些非常简单的小问题给难倒。就像我最弱的数学题,分数其实是非常容易的课题,可是我却搞了好几年,没错!是好几年才搞得清楚!哈!

而在爱情的世界里虽然说没有对与错,但是旁人总能清楚地分析出到底那个人还值不值得留恋。因为他们都不处身在感情的问题里,当然能够理智地分析利与弊、好与坏。而招受感情问题者明明心里有了答案却不要面对现实,悲惨!

之前有个朋友因为感情触礁而闷闷不乐,最后精神还出了问题状况。看了医生、吃了药反而还变本加厉地想要自杀了结生命!我没办法明白。不过他说,有一天他自己突然间对自己说“你必须要醒了!”他就勇敢地渡过了这个难关。

绿茶昨天也告诉我,他在一瞬间有一种放松了的感觉。那是因为他看见了一对很恩爱的老夫妻和一对很要好的老朋友走在街上的画面。虽然与西瓜不能成为令人羡慕的恩爱情侣,但是起码他知道大家变老了还是很好的朋友,一起走。

这种自己觉悟的感觉是旁人不能给予,也不是旁人能够了解的。这种感觉不是因为绿茶找到了新伴侣而来,也不是因为他讨厌诅咒西瓜而来,而是真心诚意地明白、了解、放下,再重新接受。再见还是朋友,现在我觉得是可以的!

就算今天西瓜说他不再回来了,绿茶是会不舍得、伤心难过。那是出自朋友的心意了,因为他知道再这样自欺欺人下去只会伤害自己,也令西瓜为难。既然不能相爱到老,就为友谊万岁干杯吧!也为恍然大悟的朋友干一杯!加油!

2 comments:

shang said...

爱上了。。不是说放就放。。

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