Wednesday, February 10, 2010

说。谎


人天生就有一种爱说谎的本性,有时候欺骗别人,有时候欺骗自己,目的就是希望自己好过一点,也好让别人不那么难过。时常听人家说:“我没有说谎。”但是到底实际状况是怎样,只有当事人才知道,不过甚至有些时候,说谎的人也搞不懂究竟自己心里的答案是什么。

在感情的世界里面人人都爱面子。也因为这样,他们都爱用谎言来掩饰自己的一些东西。分手了,或许是自己的不足、也许是自己的面子,又或者是自己的私隐情感不便让人一窥究竟,所以人们都喜欢用谎言来掩饰,好让自己有个下台阶,不会让人觉得自己卑微与不中用。

最常听别人说:“旧的不去,新的不来。”但是很多人在旧情人离去走远之后,却久久找不到新欢。原因有几个,可能是旧的伤痕结痂后仍然隐隐作痛,明白爱不可以持久,无法接受新的恋情;又可能是爱得太深,伤得太重,让重生的自己对爱失去了信心,一心只想玩乐。

又常听别人说:“我放下了,我没有事了。”但是有多少人能够真正忘却之前的伤痛,重新再爱?真心爱过,很难能够彻底放下,因为爱过的痕迹会像深深的烙印,永不磨灭。爱过的人,无论过了多少时间,转换了多少个空间之后,感觉还是会一样存在,只会随时间变淡。

也常听别人说:“我没有等待,只是遇不到适合的人。”听起来好像很有道理,不适合又何必浪费时间尝试?但想想,如果不是因为那些等待的人爱拿追求者来与旧爱比较,怎么会觉得就爱还是最美?旧爱像是符咒,旧爱像是降头、旧爱像是毒品,让人没有理由地不能自拔。

很想告诉那些等待的人不要再等一个不会回头的人、很想告诉那些等待的人不要再活在昨天里面、很想告诉那些等待的人别再痴心妄想不存在的美好结局,但是等待的人就只会用谎言来打发我。希望那些等待的人有一天会醒来,别再陷入无尽的回忆,向前走。

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